Words can kill
17 May 2008
At times it is better not to say anything like the saying goes 'Silence is Golden'! Remember these words may hurt those people around you either with intention or without intention. Whether you like it or not, once the words are spread out there is no turning point. You either apologise or swallow down it hard and pretend nothing had happened. You may think that you have disclosed the information to someone you could trust but you will never know when a person could turn it's back on you. Even a safe needs to be insured! There are two side of stories to a picture but the differences lies on the method of analysing the picture.
To be honest, I am not saying that I do not trust my friends around me. However the level of trust varies from one person to another. There are some who really cares, listens to every single words I have said or about to say, shared my laughters and tears, advice me on what's right or wrong and even stayed up all night just to accompany me. Some others are just mere acquaintance, clubbing matez, movie matez, or even sports matez and food lovers and housemates. The friendship tightens and develops as years goes by as well as the intention of parties. Remember, friendship can be compared to a chess game. It will come to an end if you take the wrong move.
Don't get me wrong if I do not tell you or share with you my personal problems. I am picky and do not feel that it is your fault or whatsoever. It is me who is not capable to open up to everyone. I may be a nosy parker with other's but not when it comes to matters which trust is involved. If I choose not to tell, no matter how pathetic you can be I won't mind because I stand on my own firm grounds. But when I decide to tell, I will tell you openly, not even a single word need to be said by you.
*Every individual is different and unique in their own way. This is me and I live with it.
To be honest, I am not saying that I do not trust my friends around me. However the level of trust varies from one person to another. There are some who really cares, listens to every single words I have said or about to say, shared my laughters and tears, advice me on what's right or wrong and even stayed up all night just to accompany me. Some others are just mere acquaintance, clubbing matez, movie matez, or even sports matez and food lovers and housemates. The friendship tightens and develops as years goes by as well as the intention of parties. Remember, friendship can be compared to a chess game. It will come to an end if you take the wrong move.
Don't get me wrong if I do not tell you or share with you my personal problems. I am picky and do not feel that it is your fault or whatsoever. It is me who is not capable to open up to everyone. I may be a nosy parker with other's but not when it comes to matters which trust is involved. If I choose not to tell, no matter how pathetic you can be I won't mind because I stand on my own firm grounds. But when I decide to tell, I will tell you openly, not even a single word need to be said by you.
*Every individual is different and unique in their own way. This is me and I live with it.
