[Friendship!!] But do we know the real meaning of it?

"Friendship to me means wanting to give more than you receive.
Wanting to share whatever you can to make someone's life easier.
If you have a whole donut and your friend has none, it means sharing your donut, even though you may still be hungry.

Friendship means giving love. It means saying I'm here for you.
It means sharing not only the good times, but the painful times in another's life, too.
Friendship also means being able to silently stand there and lending a shoulder of strength.

Friendship means trust.

Friendship means unconditional acceptance, regardless of race, creed, religion, handicaps or background.

Friendship means helping ease the loneliness in life.

Friendship means saying hello, giving a smile, sharing hope.

Friendship means being able to laugh together, to cry together, to pray together.

In the cyberworld, as in our daily lives, friends may come and go. Sometimes you are betrayed by those you trust. Take from your friendships and memories the good, keep them close, and discard the unpleasant, painful memories. To quote a trite old phrase, "ships that pass in the night" is what we essentially are in each others lives - each with a purpose for a particular time. Be guarded in your friendships, however, especially in the cyberworld. Many people live in fantasy worlds and it is best to keep those relationships in that concept - allow them to be what they "want to be" rather than what "you would like them to be." Enjoy the fun, the friendship, and take it with a grain of salt. And, enjoy those friendships that are sincere and lasting - a true friendship is a treasure for life."

Note: The above passage is taken from Pamela Pauley-Perreault from this website:http://www.geocities.com/~pamsway/friendship.html

After reading the passage, am wondering is friendship such a straightforward concept? Personally, I do not feel so because human being(s) aren't easy to apprehend. But all I can say that it is a wonderful experience in life if you ever come across nice and understanding people. I am quite vulnerable when it comes to friendship problems as I had enough of it. So please exclude me out of it cause it is unbearable. Am really sick and tired of it!!!

SHIT HAPPENS AND I BELIEVE THAT SHIT WILL HAPPEN TO ME AGAIN!!!

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Have not been updating my blog since the last entry. Am really busy from the day I set my foot in Newcastle, 04/09/07, for my 3rd year. My life has changed tremendously after I have enrolled myself into Bar Vocational Course (BVC)! What the heck is BVC? It is a postgraduate course, which is equivalent to Certificate Legal Practice (CLP) that one must undertake in order to become a barrister. Induction week starts on 10/09/07 and normally it should be a relaxing week for a new intake of a course, right? But not for this course, folks as classes are running as normal! Besides we are told that in order to be in this course, we are not allowed to slack off, our attendance is 100%, and we are no longer a student but a professional. *it is a tiring course indeed* We have 13 freaking subjects to learn in just 9 months. I have 4 to 5 SPS(s) [i.e. seminars] to prepare for everyweek. Really no life. *leading a very strenuous and sad life at the moment*.

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On 19/09/09, Chen went back to Malaysia for good. Am missing her company actually. A very nice and accomodating person. In fact, I missed every moment of my degree course last year and had live a superb moments with Chen, Bun and Jocelyn (BVC students). Life was so much different back in 27, Ebor Street. We had our mini conversation in Bun's room, mini kitchen sessions up till the wee hours, the four of us actually watch anime(s) together at times, and to me studies was not as hectic as well. Those were the days my friends and will be remembered....

Now am staying in Rudolph House with Victor and Alyssa. We are so different in many ways and things are not as good as what we wanted it to be - this is what and how I felt. The only similarities that the three of us share in common is FOOD. This can be shown through our shapes and sizes. *laughing away while typing these* Currently am on vegetarian therefore, I do not eat with them for most meals cause it clashes!!! Hope to know them more in the next few months...

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Yokie, sorry for not informing you and saw ean that I was back home on 25th July till 4th Sept 2007. Didn't call the both of you as I do not have spare time to spend with anyone except for my own families. This is because I was really busy settling my own things, adapting to the hot weather (staying home most of the time and Brenda didn't even meet me till end of August) and had to be in Kuala Lumpur for 4 days to visit my brother and a close family friend of ours. Hope am forgiven!! But will definitely meet up with the both of you once I am back to Malaysia for good! When will that be? Am not sure yet.... Yokie, please do inform saw ean about this and will write an email to the both of you when I have ample time. Till then, take care

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Osbee and Luan, at last I have updated my blog. And please don't go and drop comments stating that I am lazy. Am not one anymore!!! It is really embarassing...Kekeke

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